photos

oh my god, you really should check out these photos. the photographer’s absolutely, absolutely…. (no words to describe her ) her pictures are like, …. totally amazing!

i’ll upload 2 of my most favorite ones. i dont wanna upload more because I’m not sure if she’ll approve me uploading these photos in the first place… ><

This one’s called HOPE. It’s really really nice isnt it?

This is my other favorite:

Blue sky ( I’m not so sure about this photo’s title, but this is the title I gave it. tacky  I know. ><)

There are soooo many other gorgeous pictures that she took. You guys should really go check it out. It’s so cool! You kind of get this indescribable feeling when you look at it. Here’s the link to her photo album:

http://flickr.com/photos/christinepeh/

Go check it out!

just a rant… or not.

okayz, this is just a simple rant. the thing is, I dont understand, why is it that men think that when we women ask them ‘do we look fat?’ they tend to go… ‘no, you dont look fat at all’ when the woman in question is actually quite fat.

 I mean, I dont mind it if the guy I ask tells me the truth. Like, I’m not even expecting you to say ‘no you’re not fat at all’. To tell you the truth, if YOU know you’re fat, but the guy tells you you’re not, that should be a red light singnal for you. If he can’t tell the truth in simple things like this, what if he says he loves you or he’s not cheating on you. Will you be able to trust him? hmmm… I wonder…

Here’s some suggestions on what you guys can say to your girl friends. (not girlfriends, but girl friends):

‘erm… you’re not fat, but you’re not thin either’ (soften the blow first. ) ‘you’re a bit plump though.’ (plump sounds so much nicer than fat)

or:

‘well, you might be leaning a little bit on the fat side, but not too much though. anyway, you still look nice to me the way you are now.’